How to do Lent - FAQ

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WHAT YOU WILL RECEIVE EACH DAY

Each day you will receive a Daily Devotional Video to prompt your prayer and reflection.

 

HOW MUCH SHOULD I DO

There are no rules to this. No one is going to check up on you. Whatever you decide to do, make sure you commit to doing it every day.

 

WHEN TO DO IT EACH DAY

There is no easy answer to this other than to say do this when you are at your best. The mornings will allow it to stay with you through the day. I know many people have said that it is the very best thing they do each day. If you are, however, not a morning person, then do it as soon as you can absorb it and give it the right amount of thought and reflection.

 

IF NO EMAIL ARRIVES

You don’t need to miss any day. If you receive the Daily Devotional videos by email and they do not arrive, go to our website BruceDownes.org and look for the Lent Daily Devotionals button. Current and past episodes will be there.

 

WHAT YOU MIGHT NEED

When I was young, I was introduced by a Catholic priest to the idea of keeping a Prayer Journal or notebook. Each day in the journal I write the day, date, and time I commence my prayer. I have been doing this for many years. In our modern world, you might choose to do this by computer or on your phone or tablet device.

If possible, as you listen to the Daily Devotional Videos jot down what stands out to you, how you are feeling, and what you might say to God as a result.

If you are not a notetaker, make a mental note of what stands out to you, how you are feeling, and what you might say to God as a result.

By making some notes you can track your personal journey in more detail.

 

HOW TO PRAY

Honesty is key in prayer and reflection. Whatever you are thinking or feeling and therefore might say to God is ok. It is your life and story.

Remember that prayer “is being present to His presence.”

In other words, being with God means that sometimes words are required and other times just sitting with God and acknowledging His presence, even though we might not have much to say is appropriate as well. We all know that being with friends or someone we love and just being in each other’s company can be very rich even though little is said.

Words and silence both have their place in prayer and reflection.

Let me remind you that your relationship with God through this Lenten season is the main focus and NOT the videos or what we might send you. They are simply aids or prompts to your relationship with God during this Lenten season.

 

IF YOU GET BEHIND

Should you miss a day, and sometimes this happens because life can be busy, then just do the current day and skip what you have missed. You can always go back and do the days you have missed after you have done the current day or when you have time.

Saturday is catchup and review day. We do not send a video for that day, but we send an email with a link to all the videos for the week should you wish to view them.

On Sundays, we send a special Lenten Daily Devotional call, ‘The Weekly.’

Having said this, make it your goal not to miss any days. When I was 15 years old, I made a decision to pray every day. I did so for about fifteen months and then one day, I missed. Once I missed one day, I then missed quite a number of days.

Make it your goal not to miss, but if you do then just do the current day and move on from there. Don’t become overwhelmed by missed days.

 

WHAT IF YOU ARE NOT SURE ABOUT GOD AND CHURCH?
I love people who are honest about their relationship with God and attitude to the Church.

You might be someone who is very committed to your faith and to Church.

On the other hand, you might be someone who is disconnected from regular participation in Church. How should you approach this journey through Lent?

Approach this with honesty. God already knows you, your story your secrets and your desires. There is nothing hidden from Him.

What we will send you will aid your conversation with God through this season of Lent regardless of whether you are someone who goes to church all the time or someone who doesn’t.

 

IT’S NOT TOO LATE TO TELL OTHERS
Last year so many people found the journey a life changing experience. Ask yourself are there five people who might benefit from receiving it that you know who are in:

  • My family
  • My city or town
  • My country
  • Another country

Do not just send them a copy of your daily emails but invite them to sign up to receive the emails each day for themselves. This way they will own the process.

Send them the following link: https://BruceDownes.org/Lent22/

May God Bless you on this journey.

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Glamis Schmidt
2 years ago

To be the person God wants me to be. Amen

Lori
Reply to  Glamis Schmidt
2 years ago

yes I feel the same way but “I” get in the way

Nicky
2 years ago

To experience God and have the relationship with Him this Lent.

BDCM Team
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Reply to  Nicky
2 years ago

Dear Nicky, this then is our prayer for you , that you experience God more in your life. Gods blessings to you especially in this lenten season, Rosemary

Shirley
2 years ago

It is important to me this Lent to learn to “listen to God”

Margaret
Reply to  Shirley
2 years ago

This is what I need, as well, Shirley. May we both come to hear God speaking to us.Blessings on your lenten journey!

Lorraine
2 years ago

To get closer to God after a spell of being lost & have the relationship with Him that I never experienced. Thank you God for not giving up on me.

Larry
2 years ago

I am currently confined for the next few weeks because of an injury so there will be opportunities to embrace Lent more fully this year thanks for the daily messages!

Lindi
Reply to  Larry
2 years ago

I wish you a speedy recovery on the injury. Perhaps look at this a an opportunity God created to have intimate moments with you. Be richly blessed through this period.

Larry
Reply to  Lindi
2 years ago

Thank you Lindi!

Tish Graham
2 years ago

I want to receive God back in my heart. During Covid I stopped going to church. Today I will begin anew and strengthen my relationship with God.

Jen
2 years ago

To renew my relationship with God, which got lost during COVID and the inability to go to church

Gerald Thibeault
2 years ago

For Lent 2022 I want to give up my anger and frustration with others and myself. “No creature so accursed can be that in him some good a loving eye can see.” Let this be the motto for my life.

Patsy
2 years ago

I want to see where God is leading me this Lent

Lucy Scholin
2 years ago

I want to get closer to God and spend time with him everyday. I want to trust him fully with no doubt that he is with me at all times. Jesus I Believe. Help my Unbelief. A prayer I say a lot

J Marie
2 years ago

Have the courage to do what I know I need to do and do it.

Gail Slagel
2 years ago

I am so thankful for this opportunity. Just moved from tiny rural town to bigger city and these huge churches do NOT acknowledge advent, lent, Ash Wednesday nor any other important church rituals and observances.

Bitsy Anderson
2 years ago

I signed up but have received nothing on the weigh loss journey.

Patti Lynam
2 years ago

To Become Closer to God and SHARE, that with My Granson as I offer do !

BDCM Team
Admin
Reply to  Patti Lynam
2 years ago

Thank you Patti for your love of God and how wonderful that you share it with your Grandson.I(rosemary-Bruces wife) do this for my 10 grandchildren too. May we all draw closer to God this Lent. much love Rosemary

Colette
2 years ago

I want to connect even stronger to God. I want to know what He wants me to be doing, I don’t know I’m doing His work, and that’s what I want to do.

Bernie
2 years ago

Bernie

Bernie
2 years ago

Yes

Bernie
2 years ago

To make decisions that will help my family and myself

Gloria McHugh
2 years ago

Learning to listen to God is my main goal this Lent season, thankfully God sent this program to help me.

Susan
2 years ago

I am looking to see where God wants me to be and to deepen my prayer life.

Last edited 2 years ago by Susan
Sophia viator
2 years ago

I’m very down in my life. My husband is very sick with dementia and my grandson is having a lot of anxiety. But in spite of these issues I had the most beautiful conversation with God last night. Bruce, I’ve been a Catholic all my life. Never missed mass. But somehow after I found you, my faith is stronger than ever before. You’ve changed me. I really feel that God does love me now. Please don’t share my name as I have a lot of people praying for me.

Mwy
2 years ago

I want to grow closer to god and be a better person

Helen
2 years ago

To grow deaper in my relationship with God. I have been following your Daily Devotionals for a couple of years now and find them such a blessing. At nearly 74 years old I continue to learn from taking part and feel such peace and enriched over and over again. Thank you and God’s blessing on you all.

Ellen
2 years ago

Pray for me during my brothers memorial Mass. He died of cancer suddenly last month. February 4th. At age 66.

Michelle
2 years ago

I am enjoying daily devotionals, especially those about forgiveness from GOD, but I am not hearing about having to go to confession and asking the priest to give absolution for those sins that are serious enough to keep someone from receiving communion. One can ask GOD to forgive, but will the priest forgive?

Shelby R. Sellers
2 years ago

Something is wrong! For months I have been straining my ears to hear God. I have opened my heart to God. I am trying to discern what God wants me to do in my life. I am semiretired from the medical profession. I am not getting any vibes! I pray, I listen, I watch; nothing. Am I not tuned in for some reason? Need suggestions!